tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389676.post3544537454014854643..comments2023-03-26T07:39:32.462-05:00Comments on Behind The Eyes: Reframing and Building New BoxesAvahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10300391686924308661noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389676.post-66233378109218740152012-11-01T21:45:51.380-05:002012-11-01T21:45:51.380-05:00The eighteen-year-old in you isn't stupid; jus...The eighteen-year-old in you isn't stupid; just naive. I think most people want a happily ever after ending. I know I do (although I will never, NEVER admit this to my therapist!)[or get a happy ending. Just not in the cards for me. Doesn't mean I don't want one, though]Marcy Applhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05607916542404661599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389676.post-18259452771254535672012-10-24T00:16:59.017-05:002012-10-24T00:16:59.017-05:00On the other hand, when you reacted that way, it h...On the other hand, when you reacted that way, it hit me where you were coming from and me questioning you like that really hurt you and did make you feel like you weren't a stand-up guy. That was never it. Insecurity played a big part of it. But it was that I hated feeling like someone didn't want me but I was still there. I've learned to be more diserning about if someone says what they mean, means what they say, and will leave when they want to leave.<br /><br />We all live with our lover's past lovers. It's part of the game. It's not personal. AvaAlsohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03057382213401831276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389676.post-4738173075503031192012-10-24T00:08:28.876-05:002012-10-24T00:08:28.876-05:00I am so sorry!
Others concerned. There are oth...I am so sorry!<br /><br /> Others concerned. There are others concerned. Always.<br /><br /> I always took it personal when you and my ex-girlfriend Amy asked me that if I was or wanted to break up. [By the way, she asked me a lot more times than you, A LOT MORE!]. <br /><br /> I took it as insecurity. Or that I wasn’t doing my job in showing either of you I am interested. But I never for one second took the time to consider why. <br /><br /> I let my own pride get in the way when you two would ask that. As if I wasn’t man enough to ask you to leave. As if I wouldn’t just be up front with you. I never even thought about you. And I never asked. I was way too narcissistic about it. <br /><br /> I guess I never considered that another person wasn’t adult enough to say if they were done with you. It never came into my feeble mind. It wasn’t just about me and you. I thought I was being clear. I never realized that someone else might not have been clear with either you in the past. <br /><br /> It wasn’t just about me. It wasn’t about you either. It was about more than that. It was about more than the two of us. <br /><br /> I never consider the other people in two people’s relationship. <br /> <br /> This explains a lot though. <br />So I have to say I am sorry. You specifically suffered for the misdoings of two other women. <br /><br /> One is my ex-wife. She wasn’t adult enough to walk away. She was adult enough to tell me. But she was also greedy enough to not walk away. <br /><br /> Me, I was in love. Even if she didn’t Love me, I did Love her. Well, I only loved the her that she used to be. But I left when I didn’t Love the her that she was. <br />Two was the ex-Amy. For the reasons I put above. <br /><br /> I am so sorry. <br /><br /> I took it personal. I didn’t with you and I should have. <br /><br /> In the end, it is not just two adults. There are always more people in a relationship. Others Concerned. <br /><br />ALWAYS!TyRoy Washingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14875709035751260678noreply@blogger.com